Dating a sugar mamma can be really tough, especially if you don’t know exactly how to date a sugar mamma, or if you’re going to date an older lady for the first time. It is really important to make sure that you’re aware of all the things that you should do and not should do, to ensure that your date goes smoothly and that you’re going to be able to get a second date.
Not knowing all these important tips, will result in you not being able to date a sugar mamma successfully. Here’s some important tips for cubs who want to date a sugar momma.
Take your time in finding your sugar match
The big secret to successful sugar mama dating is to take your time when you’re searching for your sugar mamma. You don’t want to date the first sugar mommy that you find. It is important to make sure that you’re really finding a great match for you. You might even be happy and find yourself your soulmate.
The most important thing is that when you’re going out to find your perfect match, you need to know where to go. You can’t just go to any club and think that you’re going to meet many sugar mammas. Going to the right place is essential to be able to find a great date.
Another place where you can find your potential sugar mama, is at sugar mama dating sites. There you will be able to meet as many sugar mamas as what you can. But, you still need to take your time in asking anyone on a date.
Taking your sugar mamma on the first date
If you had met your sugar mamma, and you’re going to take her out on your first date, you need to remember that she is much older than you. You can’t take her to the places where you normally would hang out. If you’re going to take her to your hang out place, there will not be a second date.
If you want to make a real impression, then you need to ask her where she wants to go on her first date with you. And, when she does say where she wants to go, don’t make a face or say anything. Even if it’s the worst place on earth. You’re taking her there.
Many rich cougars also make the mistake by letting the sugar mummy pay for the first date. This is a big no-no. If you’re a man and she’s a woman, even if she is the rich one, you’re going to pay for your first date. There’s no excuse. If she offers to pay for the date, you say that she can pay for the next one. The first date is on you. And, if you don’t want to pay for any dates, don’t even try to find a sugar mamma.
The way that you’re dressed
Another big mistake that many cubs are making, is the fact that they don’t think clearly when they are getting dressed for a date with a sugar momma. You need to remember that you’re much younger than her, and if you’re not dressed accordingly, it is going to look like your mother is taking you out for dinner. And, this is the fastest that you’re going to get dumped.
Make sure that you’re dressing casually, and not too smart. However, you should also not in any way dress like a young man in his twenties. Even, if you are in your twenties. You need to accommodate her in your choice of clothing to make this relationship working.
Knowing your rights as a cub
So many cubs are thinking that they can ask for money all the time, because they are now dating a rich sugar mamma. But, if you’re giving the impression that you’re only dating her for her money, you’re not going to successfully date a sugar mamma, ever.
Even if she is a rich older women that like to spoil you, you’re doingn’t take advantage of it. You can’t tell her every time that you’re seeing her that you really want to have this and that. Or, even directly ask her for money. She wants to feel like she is more than just giving money. She wants to feel special and that know that there’s someone out there that really loves her for her, and not for her money.
Spoil your sugar mommy often
Don’t let her do all the spoiling. She wants to be spoiled also. And, with spoiling we don’t mean that you’re going to take her money and buy her a gift. Then, she is actually buying her own gift for herself. Make a plan and spoiling her with your money.
Because she is rich don’t mean that she wants to be spoiled often. Every woman wants to be spoiled, no matter if you’re twenty years old, or if you’re forty years old. If you want to successfully date a sugar mamma, then you need to know the importance of spoiling her also.
So many cubs are making the mistake of not spoiling her, because they want to be spoiled themselves by her. This is the fastest way that you’re going to lose your sugar mamma. And, who knows, it might have been your best relationship ever, or even your soulmate that you’re losing because you’re not considering how she is feeling. And, think about spoiling her sometimes.
There’s lots of rules when it comes to sugar mamma dating. And, if you want to date an older, rich women successfully, then you need to play the rules. If you’re going to break the rules, you’re not going to have a successful sugar mamma relationship. There’s many great benefits in dating a sugar mamma, but it is really important to remember that even if she is a rich older woman, she wants to feel like a women also. A sugar mamma relationship can be great, however you need to make sure that you remember all these important tips.